If no shame, morality, ethics or responsibility taken in a family or by those `of significance` or `role models`, then usually one of the children will take on the feelings of guilt/shame etc. and become the `super-sensitive’ or empath.
The guilt level can become overwhelming and leave the belief that one deserves to `die` emotionally/spiritually.
One then becomes a referee/observer/placator, but the `real me/self` gets lost/put to sleep/in hibernation/buried.
The purview of the world then becomes one of everything being either black or white/passive or aggressive/win or lose/introvert or extrovert.
Paying the price (penance) for the family of origin’s behaviours, beliefs and bigotry.